How Well Are You Leading at Home?

You’ve mastered leadership at work.This quick 7-question self-assessment will show how that leadership is transferring to your family life.Tally your score and discover what’s working and where to level up.

• TAKE THE ASSESSMENT

Self-Assessment: 7 Key Areas

1. Vision & Values

How well-defined and practiced is your family’s vision and values?1 = We’ve never discussed vision and values
2 = We talk about it sometimes, but nothing is formal
3 = Written + lived weekly

2. Connection Rhythms

How consistent and intentional are your relationships with your spouse and kids?1 = Disconnected or surface-level
2 = We connect here and there, but not deeply or often
3 = Regular 1-on-1 time and healthy dialogue with wife & kids

3. Leadership Presence at Home

How intentional and confident are you in your leadership presence at home?1 = Mostly reactive or distant
2 = Sometimes intentional, but often distracted
3 = Intentional, present, and leading with purpose

4. Expectations & Accountability

How strong is your family’s framework for responsibilities, expectations, and consequences?1 = Inconsistent or chaotic
2 = We have rules, but enforcement is hit or miss
3 = Clear, enforced, respected

5. Family Routines

How consistent are your family’s weekly routines for connection, planning, and communication?1 = Mostly reactive or chaotic
2 = We have a few rhythms, but they’re hit or miss
3 = Regular dinners and rituals are in place and working well

6. Milestones & Rites of Passage

How intentionally are you preparing your kids for adulthood through key experiences?1 = Not on the radar
2 = We’ve done a few things, but nothing structured
3 = Have a plan + executing it

7. Marriage Alignment

How aligned are you and your spouse on your family’s leadership and vision?1 = Disconnected or reactive
2 = Sometimes on the same page, sometimes not
3 = Fully aligned + leading as a team

• TALLY YOUR SCORE

Add Up Your Total Score
(Min: 7 | Max: 21)

7-10: Off Track

You’re likely operating in survival mode. The good news? You're not alone and there’s low-hanging fruit everywhere.

11-17: On The Fence

You’re doing some things well, but there’s no intentional system. Now it's time to get proactive.

17-21: Strong Foundations

You’ve got the framework. Now it's time to optimize, challenge, and expand.

• NEXT STEPS

Let's Work Together to Improve Your Score

Most dads score between 10 and 15 the first time.The Blueprint and Sprint are built to quickly improve your score.Next Steps:

• Get The Blueprint

• Join the Sprint

Have a question? Get in touch. Let's do this together.